Lifestyle

Let’s Talk About Sex! 

For some time now we've been observing the rise of the intimacy, sexual wellbeing and sex tech category for women, which until now has been under-exploited or poorly considered. Intimacy and sexuality are an integral part of our well-being, so it was important for us to continue to support you in every aspect of your wellness journey. Our Communication Director, Fanny, tells you all about this new and exciting launch.

When did you first hear about ‘sexual wellness’?

‘The trend is not new, particularly in the United States where the brand Goop was already marketing yoni eggs in 2017 to ‘increase sexual energy and pleasure’ and Lily Allen at the same time launched a sex toy in collab with Womanizer... But it remained very niche (see perched) or well taboo for a while.... It wasn't until a number of women entrepreneurs got to grips with this vast subject that it was democratised in Europe. Today there is a plethora of products on offer: some have launched coaching apps, podcasts or women's porn... While others have created their own brand of sex toys, female condoms or libido boosters...

What do they all have in common? Products or services designed by women for women, with a modern, sensitive and aesthetic approach. This is the case, for example, of Lucie Solal, founder of Bouche Bée, who in 2022 launched her online concept store dedicated to intimacy and sexual well-being, whose philosophy we share: "I wanted to take sexuality out of the taboo, pornographic, shameful, hidden realm and put it back into the realm of well-being, in the same way as a balanced diet or a skincare routine. Sex is also part of self-care."

Can you tell us how the Maude and Bouche Bée brands were selected?

The first job was to benchmark the existing range with Clémentine, our purchasing manager, to take stock of the market. Then, as with all our brand listings at Oh My Cream, the whole team tested each of the products, analysing their composition, their image and price positioning and their ethical and eco-responsible dimension, to keep just these 2 brands! These were carefully selected gems that seduced us with their effectiveness and their message.

Do you think these subjects are still taboo? 

I think that they are less so than they used to be, that the generation of thirty-somethings that we are has managed to take control of our sexuality and free up our voice and that many opinion leaders, journalists and entrepreneurs have played a part in this evolution. I'm delighted to be able to talk about it here, in a safe place! I think that those involved in the world of well-being have a role to play in demystifying women's pleasure, without having a prescriptive discourse that could create new injunctions. The idea isn't to say that if you don't use a sex toy on your own or with a partner, you've failed in your sex life, but to offer our customers the chance to find their own way (at different times in their lives) through education, advice and a tried and tested quality offering in which they can have confidence. So all you have to do to take the plunge is listen to yourself, and your instinct will do the rest.

For our customers who may be wondering, can you confirm that all these new products meet our selection criteria? 

Of course! At Oh My Cream, all the products on our shelves are subject to the scrutiny of our guidelines. And we've challenged our partner brands all the more in this category because most of these products are used on our intimate bodies... In 2020, our selection guideline set out Oh My Cream's definition of ‘clean’. This definition mainly takes 3 criteria into account: effectiveness, safety (even if we are lucky enough to be largely protected by the European Cosmetic Regulations, which are the strictest in the world) and finally, eco-responsibility. The Oh My Cream range is very varied, with natural and organic brands, but we also distribute brands with other philosophies. That's what makes us so special, and allows each customer to find the perfect formula for their skin and their personal requirements or convictions.

When it comes to listing our sex toys, we have opted for brands that use only high-quality, medical-grade silicone, with a reassuring guarantee. For example, Bouche Bée’s Ona sex toy comes with a 2-year guarantee, which is truly unheard of on the market! At Maude, the formulas are simple, in the good sense of the word. Their pH is adapted to our intimacy, and the superfluous has been removed to leave only the essential.

You must have a few favourites among the selection... Can you tell us about them?

Yes, I'm a fan of the Bouche Bée Ona Sex Toy, a vibrating clitoral stimulator with 9 speeds that I use mainly for its soft, powerful pulsating air. It's the perfect companion for (re)discovering solo orgasms as your imagination takes you. I'm currently testing Maude Wash pH Balancing Body Wash & Bubble Bath, which has a neutral pH to gently cleanse the intimate area (and whose packaging I love in my bathroom).

And if you had to choose just one of these new products to pack this summer...

The scented Burn massage candle from Maude, formulated with super-moisturising plant oils, is the perfect way to relax for two or more! 

PS: summer will be hot ;)))))

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